Hate me? Thanks!!

Have you ever felt so angry at someone that you literary hate that certain person? I think we all have. I never heard of a person who still hasn’t.

We always speculate that HATE is the exact opposite of LOVE. When a person breaks up with a cheating partner, He would always say that he hates her. If a child is scolded (on a teenager’s case, grounded) by a parent, the same word is heard (but of course, he makes sure that the parent doesn’t hear it!). Since I was an elementary student until I reach college, Hate means the same, the opposite of love.

But then just a couple of days ago, I have read this certain something somewhere. I can’t remember where or even the exact word, but I will never forget it’s over all message. It gave me a new meaning for HATE.

Absence is the exact opposite of Presence right?

Is Hate the absence of Love? No. You can not hate a person if there is no Love present there. Love is the complement of Hate. Hate will never exist without Love. Because if love doesn’t exist anymore, it means that you don’t care at all. What ever hateful a person may do to you, it will not affect you if there is no love, if there is no care.

So we hate, because we love, because we care.

For the past few weeks, I’ve been having some misunderstanding with my mom. Well I guess it’s just but normal (well tell me if it’s not, ok?) And, yes, there are times when I totally hate her. But it doesn’t mean that I don’t love her. I sometimes feel hateful of her because I’m affected by her, by what she does and what she says to me (though I admit that it’s my fault most of the time). I’m affected because I care, and because I love her. (waaahhhhhh..Ma! I’m so corny!)

I’m sure my mom is going to read this. She’s totally updated of things I do. Sometimes too updated. Hahaha..right mom??